I looked at him in the eyes as I was sitting on his cock. And then I looked away as I started to cry. My heart was opening for him and his was not. He was closed. He was all animal, no heart. There was no soul in our sex. We had transcended our bodies and gone on a cosmic ride, but when I came down and landed my soul back into my body by making eye contact with him,...

I looked at him in the eyes as I was sitting on his cock. And then I looked away as I started to cry. My heart was opening for him and his was not. He was closed. He was all animal, no heart. There was no soul in our sex. We had transcended our bodies and gone on a cosmic ride, but when I came down and landed my soul back into my body by making eye contact with him,...

Love and sex are two separate things. Two people can love each other deeply, with or without sex. Two people can have sex, with or without love. When in love, it is common to attach to the idea that we should only share sexual experiences with our partner and that any desire for physical connection with another, marks an uncommitted heart. Although I have never been in a polyamorous or open relationship, I am no stranger to the subject. Your...

Love and sex are two separate things. Two people can love each other deeply, with or without sex. Two people can have sex, with or without love. When in love, it is common to attach to the idea that we should only share sexual experiences with our partner and that any desire for physical connection with another, marks an uncommitted heart. Although I have never been in a polyamorous or open relationship, I am no stranger to the subject. Your...

As a young woman I used to mistake sex for love. I mistook sexual interest for interest in me, as a whole person. What I craved was deep connection and loving, which is something that sex can offer us if it is with someone who also wishes to connect in this way. BUT sometimes people just want some good old sex with no strings attached, and that’s okay as long as you don’t confuse the two. In my need for...

As a young woman I used to mistake sex for love. I mistook sexual interest for interest in me, as a whole person. What I craved was deep connection and loving, which is something that sex can offer us if it is with someone who also wishes to connect in this way. BUT sometimes people just want some good old sex with no strings attached, and that’s okay as long as you don’t confuse the two. In my need for...